Articles Posted in Child Custody

A recent article from the Wall Street Journal illustrates a declining divorce rate in the United States. Since, 1979, the United States divorce rate has fallen 29% from 22.6 out of each 1,000 marriages, to 16.1 out of each 1,000 marriages. Many researchers attribute this decline to delayed marriages. For example, the median age of marriage for woman has increased from 20 years old in 1963 to 27 in 2017.

Interestingly, the divorce rates among age-categorized groups was not as uniform. The divorcer rate for couples under 54 years old consistently dropped, though the trend was reversed as individuals neared 55 and above. This category of “gray divorces” experienced a nearly doubled rate since 1979. Many researchers note that the rate of divorce is particularly high for this age group – which consists of baby boomers – since this group is more likely to be on their second marriage, which has a statistically higher rate of divorce.

If divorce is something going through your mind, there are some steps to take to ensure that you pursue it in a way that is ideal for you and your family. Primarily, understand your objectives of the divorce. If you and your spouse agree on all of the most important matters, then an uncontested divorce may be possible. These issues include child support and parenting arrangements; spousal support, better known as alimony; and distribution of marital property.

Our New Jersey child relocation attorneys Discuss the New Standard for NJ Parental Relocation

A new ruling by the New Jersey Supreme Court has changed the standard that courts must use as a guideline when deciding child relocation cases. For the past 16 years, they turned to the Baures factors to help them determine whether or not to allow a custodial parent to relocate with the child to another state. The 2001 case upon which this standard was based was Baures v. Lewis.

Baures: The Standard in Parental Relocation

Our New Jersey Child Custody Attorneys Examine the “Best Interests of the Child” and New Jersey Custody Cases

If you have been involved in a New Jersey child custody or parenting time case, you’ve probably heard the phrase “best interests of the child.” New Jersey law mandates that the child’s best interests must be of paramount importance in every family law decision, but what does that phrase really mean?

Best Interests of the Child: Who Decides?

When Divorced Parents Cannot Agree on Their Child’s Medical Care:  The Importance of Cooperation in Co-Parenting

A recent case brought before the Ocean County Superior Court demonstrates the importance of communication and cooperation in co-parenting. The case involved the divorced parents of a 16-year-old boy who injured his arm and elbow in a sports accident. The father allegedly scheduled the child’s surgery without obtaining his ex-wife’s prior consent. She wanted and was granted the right to consult another surgeon and get a second opinion. Both parents believed their chosen surgeon was best, and neither would give in. The father filed an emergency application for sole legal custody, maintaining that the boy’s mother was holding up the child’s treatment.

Because the couple was unable to reach an amicable agreement, the boy’s injuries were not being addressed.

Some Marital Settlement Agreements in divorce contain parental relocation provisions when there are children and child custody issues involved. Unless there is an inclusion about non-relocation or a specific exception referring to the reason the custodial parent wants to move out of New Jersey, a change in the divorce agreement may be needed. Of course, if the other parent agrees, then there is no problem. However, if the other parent does not consent to the relocation, a change in the agreement may need to be negotiated or the party wanting to relocate out of the state may have to obtain a court order allowing the provision to be ignored.

Recently, the Appellate Division of the Superior Court of New Jersey addressed such a situation in a divorce case referenced as Bisbing v. Bisbing.

Bisbing v. Bisbing: A New Jersey Case Study

Thanksgiving Ideas for the Divorced Parent Sharing CustodyThanksgiving is a time for sharing! But you didn’t think you would be sharing your child!

Thanksgiving is traditionally a time for sharing. School children learn about the autumn feast celebrated by the Pilgrims and their Wampanoag neighbors in 1621. They may learn that beginning in 1817, individual states—starting with New York—began to adopt official annual Thanksgiving observances and that in 1863, in the middle of the American Civil War, President Lincoln proclaimed that Thanksgiving would be a national holiday. President Lincoln hoped it would be a day that all Americans would ask God to “heal the wounds of the nation.”

Today an important element of our Thanksgiving celebrations is the cooking and sharing of traditional meals with family and friends as well as showing generosity to those less fortunate. Yes, sharing is an integral aspect of the holiday, but you never counted on having to share your child!

brang-300x225On September 15, 2016, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt separated. Jolie filed for divorce two days later. The famous couple, called “Brangelina” by their fans, had been together since 2004 and married in 2014.

Jolie’s spokespersons have said that she is doing it for the “health of her family.” She has asked that she and her family be afforded privacy.

Pitt stated when asked how he felt about the situation by People magazine, “I am very saddened by this, but what matters most now is the well-being of our kids. I kindly ask the press to give them the space they deserve during this challenging time.”

Grandparents' DayGrandparents’ Day falls on September 11th this year. Since 1979, the Sunday following Labor Day has been proclaimed Grandparents’ Day by every President of the United States beginning with President Jimmy Carter. While a happy day for most, Grandparents’ Day can be difficult for those who are denied the right to visit their grandchildren regularly.

Applying for Grandparent Visitation Rights in New Jersey

In New Jersey grandparents may ask the court to grant them visitation rights if the grandchild’s custodial parent is against it. The marital status of the child’s parents does not matter, but you may not apply for visitation rights if the child has been placed into adoption by anyone other than a stepparent.

Relocation with Children in New JerseyA custodial parent in New Jersey who wants to move to another state without the consent of the other parent must obtain a court order. In order to obtain that court order, the party wishing to move has to show that the request is being made “in good faith” and that the move will not harm the child in any way.

When a Divorce Agreement Modification Might Be Needed:

A Case Study

out of state divorceWe have a mobile society, and after separation or divorce, it is not uncommon for one of the spouses to move out of state. If either of them later decides to file for divorce or to request a modification in a divorce, then residing in two different states—or even different countries—makes it a little more complicated.

The first step is deciding where to file. It is imperative to file in a state that will have jurisdiction over your case. The most important factor is residency.

What if you want to serve divorce papers or file a request for modification of a divorce in New Jersey, but your spouse does not live in the state?

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